4 years ago i met this girl, immediately i feel in love and hoping that 1 day she could be mine. I tried my very best to get near to her and hoping that i could touched her, i tried my very best and a year or 2 after that i ask her a question. Without hesitation i was rejected straight, the reason being is that she needs time and wanted to complete her national exams first then reconsider again. So i told her" No matter what the outcome is, i'm still willing to wait for answer 1 day after the exams had finished" I tried many ways to get near to her and once i regretted that i should have gone up to NA when i was Sec1. But i'm willing to fight for what i really wanna achieve, many people told me to give up until 1 day i cannot wait any longer. I choose another person instead, everyone told me that i made the wrong move. I forget about my code of conduct and thinking that this time round i really can find 1 person that suits me, but during those days i still couldn't let go off you thinking that i really shouldn't give up. A year after that she's gonna graduate in about a few months time, i quickly did my best and took this very last chance to did what i think is right. Until last night, i gambled my luck and hoping that there would eventually be a miricale. Yet again i was rejected. It was hard to build up a relationship for during those 4 years, but it was easy to demoralize a person's feeling with an answer straight. I told myself, in order to succeed there must not be any fear blocking your way. Therefore i do not believe in fear at all, until last night i finally know whats the definition behind it all along. 4 years of hard work and yet once again i failed, thinking that she would accept me this time round. Like what people always say "Love can't be force" but whats the meaning behind it all along? I couldn't sleep all night yesterday and thinking back through of what she said on the phone rapidly and now i'm sick. I can give up my diving course, but i just couldn't give up the relationship. Usually people get tired after doing something rigorous, but i'm tired of waiting for her answer...